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Wednesday, February 2, 2011
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Fear of Success
by Successful life
It is also noted that many people fail to achieve their goals in life because of the phenomenon known as the "fear of failure" but did you realize that the main factor that is often overlooked, is a country known as the "fear of success"?
Fear of failure will bring more people into inertia - the inability to make decisions or take action in case they receive a rejection or a negative result. The mental condition is quite easy to identify and there are many tools in the personal development industry to help combat the epidemic and reprogram your mind for success. However, fear of success is much more subtle, more difficult to spot and also difficult to eradicate.
Perhaps you have a tendency in your life. Here are some indications of success fear mentality.
Learning and trying to apply techniques of self development and / or personal development tool but does not fix your life or maybe even worse.
You are staying less than you feel you deserve or capable of achieving.
You start a new project full of enthusiasm and optimism, but in your efforts to shrink or stop before you finish them.
You expect these things is wrong no matter how good the situation seems at the moment.
Can you identify your own pattern in any of the above statement?
Fear of success can also make you behave in ways that inhibit you. See the list below. This is a symptom of fear of success.
Delay - delay what needs to be done or not done what you know will bring you closer to your desired result. All people suffer from this 'evil' mind at some point in their lives (although some of us suffer more than others!).
Procrastination is a 'success killer' A! How can you expect to achieve your goals if you do not take steps in that direction? Strive to do small things every day that brings you small steps closer to your goal. This is why having a personal development plan is an important element in the fight against the postponement. Take action! Every action! Refine your step as you go along but do not sit and do nothing. Taking action is one important aspect of personal development.
Can not see the forest for the trees! - It's almost the opposite of the delays but has the same effect on your personal development. The very famous adage, but if you ever give it real consideration?
Do not get stuck in your plan believe that it is more important than the goals come true! Over the years I was stuck in this trap. I began to think and act as if my plan is more important than my end result and thus miss many opportunities to change my path and achieve my goals faster! Remove your ego and allow the Universe to show a quick route to your destination. Stay flexible.
Thinking that time is not right - if you've waited until the time it was perfect before starting a business? Have you waited until you have more information about a better plan?
ACTION Once again is the key to the door of success. Taking small steps forward are better than taking no or wait to see if your feet landed in the right place! Even if your actions take you away from your goal to have a minimal gain insight and knowledge about what does not work!
Being a perfectionist - this is similar to the points above and have the same effect, namely, that you never really move forward. No matter how good the job is finished when the company can always be improved! I have heard many great musicians tell how they hate to listen to the songs of their own because they can find a million things that need fixing. However, we still enjoyed it. I think the classic example of this is "Bridge Over Troubled Water" by Paul Simon. This song is hauntingly beautiful yet Mr. Simon does not think good enough!
Just look at the problem - how you use your focus? Are you constantly just to see and alll the problems involved? If you are in this way tend to be of no use trying to change overnight! However, you can use this mindset to your advantage while you try in your personal development to obtain opportunistic frame of mind instead.
"How can you use to see the problem only to my advantage?" You say. "Easy", is my answer! Look at the problem and devise a plan to deal with them. Every time you solve one survivor himself. Use them as a measure for your achievements. If you continue to see problems more remind ourselves about how well you deal with others. See how far you've come! If you see a problem asking yourself, "how the best way I can overcome this challenge?" or "how fast can I fix this situation?". The quality of your questions are very important because I have been described in previous articles. Use the problem as a fact-finding. Is there a real problem now? If so then deal with it. What is the potential problem? If so then make contingency plans in case it happens but do not get stuck in it only will be prepared.
Enjoy the journey, follow the guidelines above and you will achieve success. Finally, your fears will disappear and your success will be moved forward a long way in your personal development.
Fear of failure will bring more people into inertia - the inability to make decisions or take action in case they receive a rejection or a negative result. The mental condition is quite easy to identify and there are many tools in the personal development industry to help combat the epidemic and reprogram your mind for success. However, fear of success is much more subtle, more difficult to spot and also difficult to eradicate.
Perhaps you have a tendency in your life. Here are some indications of success fear mentality.
Learning and trying to apply techniques of self development and / or personal development tool but does not fix your life or maybe even worse.
You are staying less than you feel you deserve or capable of achieving.
You start a new project full of enthusiasm and optimism, but in your efforts to shrink or stop before you finish them.
You expect these things is wrong no matter how good the situation seems at the moment.
Can you identify your own pattern in any of the above statement?
Fear of success can also make you behave in ways that inhibit you. See the list below. This is a symptom of fear of success.
Delay - delay what needs to be done or not done what you know will bring you closer to your desired result. All people suffer from this 'evil' mind at some point in their lives (although some of us suffer more than others!).
Procrastination is a 'success killer' A! How can you expect to achieve your goals if you do not take steps in that direction? Strive to do small things every day that brings you small steps closer to your goal. This is why having a personal development plan is an important element in the fight against the postponement. Take action! Every action! Refine your step as you go along but do not sit and do nothing. Taking action is one important aspect of personal development.
Can not see the forest for the trees! - It's almost the opposite of the delays but has the same effect on your personal development. The very famous adage, but if you ever give it real consideration?
Do not get stuck in your plan believe that it is more important than the goals come true! Over the years I was stuck in this trap. I began to think and act as if my plan is more important than my end result and thus miss many opportunities to change my path and achieve my goals faster! Remove your ego and allow the Universe to show a quick route to your destination. Stay flexible.
Thinking that time is not right - if you've waited until the time it was perfect before starting a business? Have you waited until you have more information about a better plan?
ACTION Once again is the key to the door of success. Taking small steps forward are better than taking no or wait to see if your feet landed in the right place! Even if your actions take you away from your goal to have a minimal gain insight and knowledge about what does not work!
Being a perfectionist - this is similar to the points above and have the same effect, namely, that you never really move forward. No matter how good the job is finished when the company can always be improved! I have heard many great musicians tell how they hate to listen to the songs of their own because they can find a million things that need fixing. However, we still enjoyed it. I think the classic example of this is "Bridge Over Troubled Water" by Paul Simon. This song is hauntingly beautiful yet Mr. Simon does not think good enough!
Just look at the problem - how you use your focus? Are you constantly just to see and alll the problems involved? If you are in this way tend to be of no use trying to change overnight! However, you can use this mindset to your advantage while you try in your personal development to obtain opportunistic frame of mind instead.
"How can you use to see the problem only to my advantage?" You say. "Easy", is my answer! Look at the problem and devise a plan to deal with them. Every time you solve one survivor himself. Use them as a measure for your achievements. If you continue to see problems more remind ourselves about how well you deal with others. See how far you've come! If you see a problem asking yourself, "how the best way I can overcome this challenge?" or "how fast can I fix this situation?". The quality of your questions are very important because I have been described in previous articles. Use the problem as a fact-finding. Is there a real problem now? If so then deal with it. What is the potential problem? If so then make contingency plans in case it happens but do not get stuck in it only will be prepared.
Enjoy the journey, follow the guidelines above and you will achieve success. Finally, your fears will disappear and your success will be moved forward a long way in your personal development.
