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Thursday, February 3, 2011
The Power Of Thinking Positively
by Successful life
The importance of organizing your mind to always see the good in every situation
How do people's views of life have a huge impact and direct impact on their lives. Whether it's your career, relationships, or hobby, the kind of attitude you carry with you will always be the color of the atmosphere and actions of every aspect of your life.
So, what is your general perspective?
Are you motivated with good general does not let you down? Or do you sometimes or even constantly see life as futile with the possibility of success and happiness in the distance is only a dream that you are almost impossible to see reality.? Obviously, these are two extreme ends of the spectrum and most people life goes on somewhere in the middle, but where you fit? Can you see life more positively? Can you control how you think and start to see the good in any situation?
Currently, there is little doubt that positive thinking has the power to change your life, but how do you train yourself to do it? Here are some tips to use to begin to set your mind to see the positive side in every situation, no matter how apparently negative that might arise.
1. Believe in Yourself. It may seem given that confidence in yourself is essential to successfully navigate through each day, but how do we begin to think more positively about ourselves. Begin by looking back at your problems in the past and successfully solved. Quite often you will see that when the problem first appears you do not know how to solve and filled with fear and despair, but there is one thing - you can not pass it. Always remember that whatever the circumstances, you have to build within yourself a way to solve the problem. So start to believe that it is correct and move forward with confidence.
2. Set Goals. By making a list of short-term goals and long term for your career, relationships and life as a whole, you have verified the importance of value yourself. Not only do you make your own measurable actions to achieve through motivation, but you also justify your belief in yourself and self confidence.
3. Expect Setbacks. Convince yourself that you would have suffered a setback on your path to success short term and long term. By reminding yourself that the problems, snafus, and setbacks are part of the process, you will be able to limit your disappointment when something goes wrong and also increase confidence when on the contrary, nothing is wrong.
4. Stay on Pessimism. When the pessimistic thoughts begin to creep in, we all know how we would end. We will think bad and feel generally down in sadness. However, if you find yourself before a bad mind set, you can replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts. It is not as difficult as first appears, but to do so, we first must understand where pessimism is coming from.
5. Understanding Negative. Remind yourself that change constantly negative when the chips down, do not help your situation to get better, and more time and effort you spend to have a bad attitude, the more time is wasted when you could work towards a positive outcome.
6. See failure as a Learning Experience. Of course, you have heard that to take setbacks in your path to success in your career, relationships, and anything else that you have a view you as a learning experience. This is one of the best ways to stay positive. Every time there's a setback, stop and remind yourself that from experience you will learn how to do better next time. By setting your mind to realize that setbacks every opportunity, you're more likely to succeed or at least closer to success with your lesson.
7. Reset your limitations. We all have self imposed limitations that we have placed on ourselves, but they are not set in stone. It is always good to expand your limitations of what you think you can achieve. You will be surprised how much you can do if you open your self limiting. Without doing so, you run the risk of not realizing your potential.
8. Accept Responsibility. Because you were a child, your parents might have told you to take responsibility for your actions and for all that happens in your life. These words, though annoying at the time, very valuable to stay positive and realize your dream of success. By taking responsibility you claim as your own situation and even if there is a lot of negativity or sadness in that situation, if you have it you can change it, because in your hand and not others.
9. Let Go Failure. Once you have collected all the useful information from your failures and setbacks, let failure go. Once you've learned your lesson, memory failure would only hinder you, there's no point, it happens, you have received so just let it go so you can start again. Learn what you need to try better next at your destination, and then let go of the fact that you failed. Remind yourself of failure will hold back your energy to achieve the goals you have set yourself.
Lastly remember that failure is the only perspective. Select the correct perspective and the failure to launch pad for success. How? Well remember the words of Edison, when asked why he continued with efforts to find a filament electric lamp after more than 14,000 experiments have failed. He replied "I do not fail, I just eliminated 14,000 ways that do not work". With attitude like that he always will be successful and, of course, as history proves - he did. Remember this every time you turn on the light.
How do people's views of life have a huge impact and direct impact on their lives. Whether it's your career, relationships, or hobby, the kind of attitude you carry with you will always be the color of the atmosphere and actions of every aspect of your life.
So, what is your general perspective?
Are you motivated with good general does not let you down? Or do you sometimes or even constantly see life as futile with the possibility of success and happiness in the distance is only a dream that you are almost impossible to see reality.? Obviously, these are two extreme ends of the spectrum and most people life goes on somewhere in the middle, but where you fit? Can you see life more positively? Can you control how you think and start to see the good in any situation?
Currently, there is little doubt that positive thinking has the power to change your life, but how do you train yourself to do it? Here are some tips to use to begin to set your mind to see the positive side in every situation, no matter how apparently negative that might arise.
1. Believe in Yourself. It may seem given that confidence in yourself is essential to successfully navigate through each day, but how do we begin to think more positively about ourselves. Begin by looking back at your problems in the past and successfully solved. Quite often you will see that when the problem first appears you do not know how to solve and filled with fear and despair, but there is one thing - you can not pass it. Always remember that whatever the circumstances, you have to build within yourself a way to solve the problem. So start to believe that it is correct and move forward with confidence.
2. Set Goals. By making a list of short-term goals and long term for your career, relationships and life as a whole, you have verified the importance of value yourself. Not only do you make your own measurable actions to achieve through motivation, but you also justify your belief in yourself and self confidence.
3. Expect Setbacks. Convince yourself that you would have suffered a setback on your path to success short term and long term. By reminding yourself that the problems, snafus, and setbacks are part of the process, you will be able to limit your disappointment when something goes wrong and also increase confidence when on the contrary, nothing is wrong.
4. Stay on Pessimism. When the pessimistic thoughts begin to creep in, we all know how we would end. We will think bad and feel generally down in sadness. However, if you find yourself before a bad mind set, you can replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts. It is not as difficult as first appears, but to do so, we first must understand where pessimism is coming from.
5. Understanding Negative. Remind yourself that change constantly negative when the chips down, do not help your situation to get better, and more time and effort you spend to have a bad attitude, the more time is wasted when you could work towards a positive outcome.
6. See failure as a Learning Experience. Of course, you have heard that to take setbacks in your path to success in your career, relationships, and anything else that you have a view you as a learning experience. This is one of the best ways to stay positive. Every time there's a setback, stop and remind yourself that from experience you will learn how to do better next time. By setting your mind to realize that setbacks every opportunity, you're more likely to succeed or at least closer to success with your lesson.
7. Reset your limitations. We all have self imposed limitations that we have placed on ourselves, but they are not set in stone. It is always good to expand your limitations of what you think you can achieve. You will be surprised how much you can do if you open your self limiting. Without doing so, you run the risk of not realizing your potential.
8. Accept Responsibility. Because you were a child, your parents might have told you to take responsibility for your actions and for all that happens in your life. These words, though annoying at the time, very valuable to stay positive and realize your dream of success. By taking responsibility you claim as your own situation and even if there is a lot of negativity or sadness in that situation, if you have it you can change it, because in your hand and not others.
9. Let Go Failure. Once you have collected all the useful information from your failures and setbacks, let failure go. Once you've learned your lesson, memory failure would only hinder you, there's no point, it happens, you have received so just let it go so you can start again. Learn what you need to try better next at your destination, and then let go of the fact that you failed. Remind yourself of failure will hold back your energy to achieve the goals you have set yourself.
Lastly remember that failure is the only perspective. Select the correct perspective and the failure to launch pad for success. How? Well remember the words of Edison, when asked why he continued with efforts to find a filament electric lamp after more than 14,000 experiments have failed. He replied "I do not fail, I just eliminated 14,000 ways that do not work". With attitude like that he always will be successful and, of course, as history proves - he did. Remember this every time you turn on the light.
June 1, 2011 at 7:16 AM
permisi, maaf
maaf nunut promo nih, barangkali mau berteman , saling follow maksudnya..